Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 22

“The LORD will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to send rain on your land in season and to bless all the work of your hands.”  Matthew 11:28

Across the country today congregations will be collecting turkeys and canned goods.  During our “Thanksgiving Sunday” service here in East Woodstock, our Sunday School children will parade down the center aisle of our sanctuary to present bountiful food offerings brought in by our congregation.  We will keep some of the food in our church cupboards for times when we are called upon to provide an emergency meal. The surplus will be distributed to nearby food pantries and emergency shelters.

Following worship today, members of our outreach committee will prepare 28 Thanksgiving “baskets” (actually sturdy boxes) that will be filled to overflowing with fresh carrots, onions, potatoes, celery, stuffing mix, oven-ready rolls, apples, and of course a turkey. These will be delivered to local families who are finding the holidays a challenge for any number of economic or emotional reasons.

We won’t solve world hunger or even local food shortages today. But I hope we will share God’s Good News of concern and caring, along with a much-needed meal.

I give thanks for the compassion and generosity of my congregation.

What are you thankful for today?

Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 21

“We gather together to ask the Lord’s blessing.”

My family always hosted Thanksgiving when I was growing up. We could expect about 20 people to arrive ready to enjoy a day of eating, skeet-shooting (a bottle of champagne to the winner, a can of beans to last-place finisher), more eating, a walk before dessert, followed by a lively game of charades.

One of my favorite memories is listening to my mother whistle Thanksgiving songs while immersed in the holiday preparations. She would whistle  “We Gather Together”  as she readied the turkey for its long oven sojourn,  then move on to  “Over the River and Through the Woods” as she mapped out the table seating chart and counted napkins and silverware.

We might hear  “Come ye Thankful People Come” she peeled potatoes or “Great is Thy Faithfulness”  while she baked an array of pies.

Cooking with musical accompaniment – a holiday tradition at our house.  My mother isn’t much of a singer, but she can whistle with the best of them.

I give thanks for Thanksgiving songs and hymns that remind me of the joy of the season.

What are you thankful for today?

Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 20

“Come, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest”   Matthew 11:28

These days if you say the words “health care” too many people think you are starting a political argument. The health care system in our country is not perfect but I know that I have more access to skilled, state of art health care than the vast majority of the world.

  • When I dial 911, someone arrives at my door – quickly.
  • When I am sick, I can get an appointment with my doctor.
  • Even though I don’t enjoy any of these procedures, I have the luxury of having preventative screenings like a mammogram, colonoscopy, or even a routine dental check-up.
  • If I’m sick on a weekend, I can go to a “minute clinic” or acute care setting.
  • If – heaven forbid – I would be diagnosed with a serious illness, I have the opportunity to seek a second opinion and then choose from a myriad of treatment options.

That is not the case for most of God’s children all over the world.

  • UNICEF says that a child will die every 30 seconds today from malaria.
  • Lack of basic nutrients like Vitamin A or iodized salt can mean the difference between life and death in infants and children.
  • Save the Children is one organization that works to prevent malnutrition and low birth weight babies. Children die every day because their mothers had no prenatal care.

And me? I have a choice of pharmacies whose shelves contain an embarrassing number of generic and name brand drugs, open 24 hours/day.

I give thanks for nurses, doctors, EMTs and access to good medical care.

What are you thankful for today?

Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 19

Come, let us tell of the LORD’s greatness; let us exalt his name together.”   Psalm 34

I have a love-hate relationship with computers and the internet.  I despair at the amount of time people spend looking at their phones and I worry we are raising a generation of children who won’t know how to talk with one another and enjoy a lengthy, heart-felt conversation.

On the other hand, I enjoy texting with my daughter while she is away at school and revel in the pictures of college adventures she shares on Facebook. I marvel at the instant communication that allows me to keep up with family and friends across the country and around the world. I amazed – and grateful – that I have instant access to information about weather and news. I appreciate the vast array of movies I can enjoy on my laptop while relaxing with a cup of tea on my couch.  And I would be embarrassed to tell you how often Google provides a complete Bible quotation for my sermon when I can only remember bits and pieces of it.

Undoubtedly the internet can be used in any number of vile ways and can waste precious hours. But when I am mindful and intentional, the computer can open the world up to me and that can be a blessing.

I give thanks for computers, the internet and the many ways we can connect with one another.

What are you thankful for today?

Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 18

‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.'”   Luke 10:27

Over the years we have been blessed by wonderful neighbors.  When our children were young, we lived next door to a family with four children close in age to ours.  We sometimes joked that we should simply install revolving doors in our houses because we never knew how many children would end up where.  Shared meals, sledding parties, borrowing the proverbial cup of sugar, combined birthday parties – so many life events were made sweeter by sharing them.

A move to a new house brought new neighbors. We have been blessed by gifts of homemade maple syrup, the welcome sound of a plow clearing away mountains of snow, and the joy of a Christmas cookie exchange.

I give thanks for neighbors who offer caring and thoughtfulness.

What are you thankful for today?

Reflections of Hope

I am about to do a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?
I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.
   Isaiah 43

On November 13-14th, I had the pleasure of leading a women’s retreat with my friend Patti.  Twenty-four women from the First Church of Granville (Ohio) gathered in the beautiful Pilgrim Pines retreat center to focus our thoughts and spirits on the theme “Hope and Transformation.”

These are some reflections that emerged from our time away. Some words that came to mind when people thought about hope:

  • Perseverance
  • Authenticity
  • Trust
  • Relationships
  • Friends
  • Love
  • Passion
  • Growth
  • Openness
  • Hope “gives you a reason to get up in the morning.”
  • Hope is “the thing with feathers” (from Emily Dickinson poem)
  • “In the Bulb There is a Flower” (hymn)

People talked about how there can be many “flowerings” or periods of growth over the course of a lifetime. It is important to remember – and be patient in – the times of dormancy that come in between those growth spurts. Resting and regrouping are a vital part of renewal. “A period of dormancy allows strength to build to flower anew.”

We were encouraged to look for signs of new life around us and within us.  “Celebrate the buds” that will gradually evolve into blooming glory.

Sometimes it is necessary to let go of something or someone in order to move forward.

Some quotes:

  • “When it is dark enough, you can see the stars.”
  • Night sky
  • From Library of Soulsby Ransom Riggs (the 3rd novel of Miss Peregrine’s Peculiar Children trilogy):  “And it occurred to me, standing there, just breathing with her, quiet settling around us, that those might be the three most beautiful words in the English language.  ‘We have time’.”  Doesn’t that describe this weekend perfectly?  We had time, didn’t we?  Time to stand together and breathe, with the quiet settling around us.  Thanks for that gift, Patti and Sue.   Thanks for knowing that this is just what we needed, whether we knew it or not.
  • “It is said when one door closes, God will open another. But it can be hell in the hallway.”

Hallway

 

It is poignant to remember that while we were ensconced in this idyllic, peaceful setting, murder and mayhem were taking place across the globe – the attacks in Paris, the ongoing suffering of the Syrian refugees, unresolved conflicts in the Middle East, to name just a few.  We search for hope in the midst of an imperfect world, trusting that the God of new life journeys with us.  Hope does not ignore the messiness or pain of real life, but instead relies on God’s promise to be with us in the midst of anguish and loss.

We enjoyed Mary Oliver’s  Morning Poem and Holli’s interpretive movement.

Our closing song that Mindy taught us:  “Dance of the Nations”

Round and round we turn

We hold each other’s hands

And lead ourselves in a circle

The time is gone

The dance goes on

circle dance

Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 17

“Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy.” Exodus 20

My Sabbath – my day of rest – is not Sunday.  Sunday is filled with worship, an opportunity to meet and greet most of my congregation in one place and one time.  Sunday is just about my busiest day of the week.  And I love it.

But for Sabbath rest, nothing beats camping.  We have gone camping at national parks from New England to the Grand Canyon and to the West Coast.  We have also gone camping about 6 miles from our home.   While it might be fun to have dramatic landscapes and breath-taking vistas, the real joys of camping are the quiet moments.  It’s sitting by the campfire, talking and singing. It’s time to play cards and board games.  It’s an opportunity to go swimming, kayaking, and hiking.  For me, camping means disconnecting from the computer and the phone and re-connecting with family and nature.

I give thanks for camping, time away, and the experience of Sabbath.

What are you thankful for today?

Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 16

Tiger cat

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances.”                1 Thessalonians 5

I know it’s silly.

I know it isn’t very profound.

But I give thanks for our cats. They have been part of our family for years and I look forward to their greeting when I walk in the door. I wish I could say their enthusiastic meows were an expression of their love, but I suspect it has more to do with wanting food – right now. I love the way they sit on my lap when I read or watch TV. I enjoy them purring with contentment.

We may have the exception to the rule, but our cats are not particularly graceful or quiet or mysterious. Instead, they knock things off shelves, skid onto the table as they leap from the counter, and claw our not-very-fine furniture. They regularly threaten to trip us as they wrap themselves around our feet.

Black cats are being overlooked in favour of more selfiegenic ones.

But still – they make me laugh, they are good company, and they are wonderful role models for enjoying a good nap.

I give thanks for pets and the joy they can bring.

What are you thankful for today?

Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 15

Birdfeeder

Look at the birds of the air; they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them…Therefore do not worry about tomorrow…”   Matthew 6

When I look to the east out of our living room window, I see our bird feeders. Throughout the day there is an ongoing dance of flight, as the birds wing their way back and forth for a quick bite. Sometimes they crowd in to fight for position and access to the precious seeds. Other times there is simply a lone woodpecker or blue jay, feasting by himself.

When I gaze out the south window, the bee hive is in sight, nestled into the woods. The bees are quiet now, tucked away into the hive as they prepare for the long, cold months ahead. But on a warm day, they will emerge and buzz around the entrance, turning the white walls of the hive into a black, swarming mass of energy.  They have already provided rich, dark honey as well as honeycomb which we melted into lovely, lightly-scented candles.

Beehive

It gives me great pleasure to watch these communities of nature – the sight and sound of God’s creation.

I give thanks for the birds, bees, and the wonder of nature.

What are you thankful for today?

Thanksgiving Fest Reflections of Gratitude: Day 14

shoes

My cup overflows.    Psalm 23

I give thanks for abundance.  When I take the time to think about it, my life is filled to overflowing with possibilities and choices.

When it’s time to put on shoes, I have more than one pair.

If I shop for cereal, there is a dizzying selection.

Cereal

Shampoos, clothes, toothpaste, even cars – there are choices to be made.  I have more than enough.

I am humbled by abundance, especially when I remember that there are many who do not know where they will eat, bathe, or sleep today.  The contrast in our circumstances can inspire to do what I can to help others.

helping hand

I give thanks for the abundance that fills my life.

What are you thankful for today?